5 ways to break up with a girl without hurting her

Break up may sound easy but it’s a difficult task to execute especially if you don’t want to break her heart and hurt her. However, if you are unhappy in your relationship it is better for you to put an end to it rather dragging it on.

DO IT IN PERSON
Break up with your girlfriend face-to-face, in person. Avoid breaking up with her through a phone call, a text message or through any means that is not a face-to-face interaction. Some people go to the extent of passing it through their friends which is so rude, disrespectful and uncouth. Doing it in person shows that at least you regarded your relationship enough to speak to her in person.

BREAK UP WITH HER PRIVATELY
Break ups come with emotions and some shedding of tears. Do your girlfriend a favor of a quiet and private location where you can break up with her. It may be your house, her house or a private place she is comfortable with. Avoid breaking this news to her on a romantic date or in the presence of your friends.

BE HONEST
One thing ladies do not like about break ups is when guys do not tell them the exact reason(s) they are breaking up with them but then prefer to put it like “ you (the lady) have done nothing wrong but the problem is with me(the guy)”. Guys may think they are doing ladies the favor of taking the blame but to be honest with you; you are doing her harm more than good. Explain your reason for the break up with clarity and avoid vague reason because this can leave her upset and more confused.

END IT NOW
End the relationship as soon as you notice it is over. As soon as you realize your relationship has no future and you are unhappy about it, go ahead and end it because it is better to end it now than dragging it on and doing it later. Ending it now will leave the pain and the damage at its minimum. Avoid wasting her time and yours.

FIRMLY CLOSE THE DOOR
Firmly close the door on your relationship and do not go back to it again. No matter how your girlfriend will feel after a break up do not call her or check up on her because when this is done it leaves the pain still lingering. Just give her the peace of finding herself back and do not leave the hope that the relationship might have a future again someday.

by: Eunice Tawiah Aboagye