How do I even put it? Side chicks are already perfect that’s why men go in for them. Typically, men always go in for qualities that are absent in their partners. Simply put a side chick is nearly perfect.
Why else will men go for them? However, in reality side chicks do not have it all. Let’s take a minute or two to think about it.
Why are side chicks usually sent packing? Mistresses are often replaced with better-looking, smarter, more eloquent and more everything women who are in turn also replaced with their betters.
It is a never ending cycle. For this reason, side chicks must realize that their positions are temporary and the probability of being replaced is high.
In order to keep your man for a long time, you must be willing to go the extra mile.
DON’T FALL HEAD OVER HEELS IN LOVE
It is said that love has the power to rob people of their ability to think. So the first tip is for the side chick to keep your head out of the clouds. You should not totally fall in love with your partner if you wants to keep him. You should be able to focus and shield your heart from love.
Falling in love will hinder the ability to retain control over your man. Also, falling in love can cloud your judgement. You can love him but that should not be your first priority.
So do all things so you don’t fall in love with your man. Your role is temporary and it’s something you must keep in mind. Ending a relationship is more difficult when you fall in love.
You have to make sure not to fall in love with him and you will always keep an upper hand in the relationship. With a clear mind, you can control things in your favor and focus on things to help you keep your man.
DON’T BE TOO CLINGY
Perfect side chicks should respect their boundaries and their position. They should not be too clingy. Men love their space. Remember they are running away from overly clingy partners. They need space to breathe. A mistress should be able to provide that for her boo.
If he’s feeling cuddly give him warmth but if he needs a place to escape, give him space. A gentle caution to side chicks, giving him space doesn’t mean being overly indifferent to him. Shower him attention but do it in flexible and pleasurable manner.
GIVE IN TO HIS WHIMS
What puts a side chick ahead of the main women is her ability to please her man. You must be able to do things the guy’s partner wouldn’t be willing to accomplish. For instance, if your protector (guy) likes you to wear heavy perfume, whenever you is around him, a mistress should apply heavy perfume.
If he wants a trim and lithe body, it is the woman’s duty to present herself that way. You should always try to please your man. You must encompass all the characteristics your man likes.
In conclusion, a mistress should always try to be one step ahead. If a mistress plays her cards well, she might even rise to being the only woman in the man’s life. The position the man places you might look despicable to the outside world, but you can work your way around it to make it fun for yourself.
